FAQ – CumFest
Q: Do I have to be a member to attend?
A: No, you don’t need to be a member.
Q: Is there a clothes check or lockers available?
A: Yes, we are providing secure lockers.
Q: What’s your policy on alcohol and drugs?
A: We offer a fully licensed bar. Drugs are never allowed at any of our events. Please follow the venue’s alcohol and drug policies. You won’t get a refund if you’re removed from a party for breaking the rules, using drugs, or being disruptive.
Q: Can women or trans men attend?
A: Our parties are for men who have sex with men. Women are not allowed to attend. For trans men, we follow the venue’s policies on who qualifies as “men” for attendance.
Q: Are lube and condoms available?
A: Yes, we provide free lube and condoms at all of our events.
Q: Can I bring my phone?
A: We ask that you leave it in your locker. If you need to make a call, please do so outside the play area. Disruptive phone use may result in being asked to leave.
Q: Are your members “safe” to have sex with? Is everyone “clean”?
A: There are always risks with any sexual activity, and no one can be 100% certain about their STD/STI status. If you’re not comfortable with these risks, CumFest might not be for you. Everyone at CumFest takes personal responsibility for their own health. We encourage regular testing every 90 days, and if you’re HIV-negative, consider discussing PrEP with your healthcare provider. CumFest is a judgment-free space—whether you use condoms or not, no one will judge you.
Q: Do I have to have sex at CumFest?
A: No, you don’t. Everything you do at CumFest is completely by your choice. At play parties, people may touch you as a way of initiating interest, but you can always signal that you don’t want to continue by shaking your head, pushing their hand away, or using other clear signals. Don’t take offense if someone declines, and offer a friendly smile or nod if you’re turned down. All sex at CumFest is consensual—you can play as much or as little as you like.